Anonymous asked:

my boyfriend took everything and left me. i thought we were going to get married. while leaving, he told me id be lucky if another punjabi guy would accept my past. he was my past. i'm breaking and i don't know what to do.

rupikaur answered:

Sugar, who said you have to drink his toxicity? Spit it out.  Who said he took everything?  Only you are equipped with the power to destroy yourself.  

A man cannot come over and break you. You were born whole. You, my love were beautiful and wanted and loveable long before he came and said you were.  remember that.  always.  

So don’t you dare turn his weak words into a knife and cut yourself.  Do not fight for anything less than love.  Especially, do not fight for someone that intentionally hurts you.  You deserve more than painful love.  

I know it’s hard. Believe me. I know it feels like tmw will never come and today will be the most difficult day to get through but I swear you will get through this.  The hurt will pass. It always does.  If you want to let it.  So let it go. Slowly like a broken promise. let it go.